From critics on waling dead season to real life situation
The less you can accept criticism, the more you need it.
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People who take the frozen dinner box out of the garbage 3 times to recheck the instructions are the same people who ignore the last one to let cool for 2 minutes.
Source: reddit.com/r/Showerthoughts
symptoms of trauma are proof of abuse. if you’re struggling with anxiety, self doubt, self hate, low confidence, trauma symptoms, flashbacks, nightmares, paranoia, panic and severe emotional injuries, those are proof enough that you’ve been subjected to torture. your feelings aren’t fooling you, they’re consequences of abuse.
shit parents have no business telling to their kids:
- I wish you were never born
- Nobody will ever love you like we do
- You’re lucky, other children have it worse
- I should have beaten you more
- You’re so incapable you will die out of stupidity
- What can you do
- You can’t do anything on your own
- You’re so dumb you can’t get one thing done
- You’ll never survive on your own
- You will never amount to anything
- You deserved this pain
- You deserved even worse
- You’re weak
- Nobody cares what you want
- Do you think I get what I want?
- You’re useless
- Why do we even keep you around
- Why do we feed you
- Who do you think paid for all this
- You only take and take and give nothing back
- When will you start paying off
also:
- any kind of comparison to monsters, demons and pests
- any kind of insults or slurs related to appearance, gender or sexual orientation
- life-threats or violence-threats, even when they don’t sound serious
- convincing children that their boundaries are a problem that needs to be gotten rid of
- openly telling children everything that’s going on is their fault
if you feel the need to say these to your children, you obviously have no love or care for them. You think your children should suffer and you see nothing wrong with hurting your own child. You’re a disgrace and a burden on your own child. Children deserve better than this. They deserve parents who love them and protect them from pain. Why would you inflict pain on your own child. You are abusive monsters. If a child is suffering because of you, there’s nothing good about your existence.
when a child makes a mistake: D E M O N!!! Deserves to be punished!! Needs to know their place!!! Monster! This kind of behaviour is NOT acceptable! We will not allow them to forget this ever! This is why we need to keep them in check and control them constantly!!!
now try replacing these reactions, and see how much more sense it makes.
if your abusers constantly consider themselves good people:
- good people don’t just sometimes do kind things and make you fear them for the rest of time
- good people don’t make you feel like they could explode and become cruel any second, and that it’s your fault if they do
- good people don’t have countless things about them nobody is allowed to mention or talk about
- good people don’t threaten you, or take your boundaries as challenges they’re supposed to break
- good people don’t make you doubt who you are and what you’re worth
- good people don’t try to blame you when they do something hurtful to you
- good people don’t make excuses for hurting others
- good people are good all the time, not when it’s easy and convenient only
- good people don’t only act good where everyone can see them
- good people don’t force you to keep in secret what they do to you in private
- good people don’t abuse their kids, or anyone who has lesser power than they do
- good people don’t make you fear for your life when you want to get away from them
